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How Shared Unity Answered a Lifelong Question

By Sherry Pae

For most of my life, I didn’t realize a question was shaping my life.

It wasn’t a question I could easily put into words. It expressed itself as an endless fascination with what it truly means to be human. Looking back now, I can see that nearly every major decision in my life was shaped by it.

I felt it in my call to nursing. I felt it in my love of teaching. I wanted to understand everything about being human: the body, healing, consciousness, relationships, suffering, love, transformation, and spirit. To me, learning about the whole of us was, in some way, learning about unity itself.

Over the years, I devoted myself to exploring healing, consciousness, and spiritual practice. Again and again, I found something valuable. Yet I always sensed there was something more.

One experience became a turning point.

I had been studying Siddha Yoga and wrestling with the concept of maya, the idea that the apparent separateness of the world conceals a deeper underlying unity. One afternoon, while sitting alone on a bench overlooking the ocean, I found myself completely absorbed in a single question.

What is the true nature of reality?

Suddenly, without effort or intention, my entire perception shifted.

The ocean, the sky, the sand, the people. Everything became moving particles of light. The forms remained, yet I could see they were expressions of one miraculous, living field of energy.

For the first time, it was no longer a belief. It was a lived experience. I knew that beneath the apparent solidity of the world was an underlying unity.

That experience has remained with me ever since.

As profound as it was, it did not end my search. It revealed unity, but it didn’t teach me how to live from that reality with other human beings. I could perceive the interconnectedness of existence, yet I still experienced myself as a separate person navigating a separate life.

That was the question I had been living with all along.

If unity is real, why does separation still define the way we live together?

For years after that experience, I continued exploring healing, consciousness, and spirituality. I remained deeply grateful for everything I was learning and experiencing, yet the question stayed alive.

I had discovered that unity exists.

I still didn’t know how human beings could live from that reality together.

My attention gradually shifted toward groups. I found myself increasingly interested in what happened when people came together in a way that allowed something greater to emerge between them. There were moments when I sensed a deeper intelligence, a greater coherence, and a palpable feeling that life itself was participating.

Around this time, I encountered the African philosophy of Ubuntu:

I am because we are.

Something in me immediately recognized the truth of it.

The unity I had glimpsed on the beach was real. Yet I sensed there was another dimension of unity waiting to be discovered. I had experienced the unity that exists beneath life. Now I was searching for the unity that could emerge through conscious participation with another.

I couldn’t have known then where that intuition would lead.

Eventually, it brought me to Patricia Albere and the Evolutionary Collective.

When I encountered Patricia’s work, something became immediately clear. The question that had quietly accompanied me for decades finally had a direction.

For the first time, I encountered an exploration of unity as a living reality that could only emerge through us together.

I had spent years exploring unity as an inner experience. Here was an entirely different possibility. Unity could become something people consciously cultivate together. It wasn’t simply something to glimpse during profound moments. It could become the foundation for how we live, relate, create, and evolve.

For the first time, I realized that the deepest longing of my life had never been asking how I could experience unity.

It had been asking how humanity could live it.

What began as a personal longing became a shared journey.

I realized I had finally arrived at the place my entire life had been preparing me for. The search was no longer about finding unity for myself. It had become an exploration of how humanity could consciously participate in bringing a new possibility into existence.

Looking back now, I can see that every part of my journey mattered. The healing, the searching, the questions, and the moments of insight all prepared me to recognize this work when I encountered it.

Today, my life is devoted to cultivating the conditions where Shared Unity can become a living reality.

What began as a personal longing has become a shared journey.

I can’t imagine giving my life to anything else.